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Wedding traditions and customs have transformed
greatly due to changing trends in the demographic
of the today’s bridal marketplace. The
dynamics of the wedding arena has consequently
impacted the complexity of etiquette issues
facing brides and grooms, as well as other
members of the wedding party.
Wedding Planning Issues Facing Extended Families
The growing trend of extended families requires close examination
of how best to address the changing roles of stepparents in
the wedding ceremony. Some delicate issues include determining
seating arrangements during both the ceremony and reception,
as well as in other social affairs such as engagement parties
and rehearsal dinners.
Concerns in Handling Gift-giving Etiquette
The topic of giving money during weddings is a popular issue
especially since monetary gifts have become more acceptable
today. While a common practice in Asian weddings, monetary
gifts are best given in a discreet manner. Whether using a
moneybox or other accoutrement for receiving checks, cash,
or stock certificates, there are many ways to collecting such
gifts yet not appearing awkward to wedding guests.
Minding Manners at Weddings and Other Engagement Parties
Don’t eat with your elbows on the table. Don’t
drink too much. Don’t taste the icing on the cake with
your fingers. These venerable words of warning have been sounded
off for centuries. Depending on the type of wedding, whether
a formal or casual affair, keeping a watchful eye for tact
and prudence is not only practical, but also a sensible way
of showing one’s respect for honoring the bride and
groom on their wedding day. To consult a helpful guide on
wedding etiquette, refer to Emily Post's Wedding Etiquette
book for more information.
Etiquette for Giving Favors and Receiving Gifts
The common practice for determining the number of favors
to give out during weddings is usually limited to one per
couple. However, weddings with limited budgets tend to give
out favors to every single lady attending the wedding. This
is exactly the opposite practice for weddings on a lavish
scale where every guest receives a wedding favor. When choosing
to give edible treats such as candies and cookies, it is important
to ensure that these goodies are rendered to guests in a clean
and presentable manner by which ample thought and care has
been taken to package the favor properly.
Please feel free to visit these sites:
Emily
Post
http://www.emilypost.com/
Offers etiquette advice and manners advice, including wedding
etiquette.
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