How to Plan a Victorian Themed Birthday Party

Modern Victorian tea party

Bring the English tradition of afternoon tea as your inspiration for hosting a birthday party.
But why not apply a contemporary and even eclectic spin to it with your own Victorian-inspired
decorations, the perfect menu with your favorite bites, and fancy party favors to remember the
special occasion. We’re sure that the Duchess of Bedford would be tickled funny if she were to be
invited to your modern day Victorian tea party!


Modern Victorian tea birthday

Why pick pearls and roses? They’re easy to find! Decorate your centerpieces and tables with strands of pearls, roses housed in shapely glass vases or whatever you may have on hand that can hold flowers such as mason jars, and add just a touch of gold to the scene. Include fabrics such as lace or linen tablecloth. Utilize vintage crockery if you have them available. You can also make use of an eclectic mix of teacups, saucers, and serving plates. As for tea decanters and pots, it would be ideal to have a container with an antique-look, but you can certainly make use of something modern. Think ceramic, sterling silver, or copper teapots. Finally, three-tiered stands for displaying sandwiches, dainty cookies, and petite-sized pastries are a must! Alternatively, you can make your own stands! See the post links at the bottom of the post for further reference.


Since you are planning a contemporary affair, your menu has more flexibility than a traditional English tea party. We do, however, love the idea of having the following elements that are still close to this tradition:

  • A Victorian teacake made with whipped cream and strawberry jam filling – they’re actually quite light and go perfectly with tea!
  • Scones with berries and clotted cream
  • Cucumber tea sandwiches

Beyond the above menu items, we suggest these yummy options:

  • Smoked salmon sandwiches
  • Egg salad canapés
  • Mini bacon and egg tarts
  • Shrimp puff pastries
  • Mini croissants with chicken salad
  • Petit fours
  • Blueberry cheesecake bites
  • Pecan date bars
  • Buttery madeleine cookies
  • Lemon meringue cookies
  • Macaroons


To give your guests something that is line with a Victorian themed birthday party, here are our recommendations:

Victorian party favors

Vintages-style favor pouches filled with lovely lockets.
Price: $6.25 per unit. Now $3.99!


Tea cups wrapped in fabrics (see picture above) – for something eclectic!
Get 30% OFF (on more than 1 set in the same color) with CODE: ZA30
7 colors available:

ictorian Themed Birthday Party Shoe Favors

Victorian-inspired porcelain shoes in a FREE gift box filled with mini candies.
Get 30% OFF (on more than 1 set) with CODE: SOL30.

Victorian Themed Birthday Party Favors - Porcelain Egg Boxes

Limoges-style keepsake egg boxes (comes with FREE organza wraps) presented with a scrolled message inside or lovely keepsake jewelry.

Organza wrapped favor boxes


Mini Favor Bags for Rose Petals and Picture frames

Present rose petals or lovely enamel photo frames in floral embroidered bags.

Porcelain wedding favors

Give these elegant porcelain favor boxes filled with dainty treats!

Who wouldn’t want to attend your Victorian-themed birthday tea party! For more tea party inspiration, we have the following posts:

Alice in Wonderland Tea Party Theme
How to Host a Quaint Victorian Bridal Shower
Vintage-fashion Themed Bridal Shower
Victorian Themed Bridal Shower Favors
Vintage Crockery for a Mother’s Day Tea
Unique and Unusual Cake Stands

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